At your first visit with the bariatric surgeon, be prepared to talk about the demons that caused your obesity.
Your surgeon wants to know this information so he or she can get you the proper pre-op clearances you’ll need. You’ll also discuss surgical options, as well as have the opportunity to ask questions. Your doctor will also send out your consult requests and give you suggestions to start changing your habits. At the first visit with the bariatric surgeon, you’ll review medical and diet histories, discuss surgical options and receive your consultation requests.
GETTING PAST THE NERVES
My first visit with the bariatric surgeon filled me with so many different emotions. I was anxious, excited, nervous, thrilled and giddy all wrapped up into one. I didn’t know what to expect, so that didn’t help my anxiety at all. Before this appointment, I filled out my pre-visit paperwork, so I already knew it was going to hit some sore spots. This post will give you an idea of what to expect at this appointment so that your anxiety is a little eased about your first visit with the bariatric surgeon.
I also knew they were going to weigh me at this appointment, which always fills me with anxiety. The scale is super scary when you’re obese, and no one likes to step on it in front of the always-skinny nurse. I understand how hard it is, as I was 428.4 pounds at this appointment. However, there are two things I told myself as I faced the scale
First, the number that pops up on the screen doesn’t define who you are. You are more than a number on a scale. It doesn’t measure your self-worth, your awesome personality or how beautiful you are.
Second, your weight at this appointment is the heaviest weight you’ll ever be if you follow the bariatric surgery program and commit to a healthier lifestyle. Each time you step on a scale after this moment, you will weigh less. Don’t give up.
BARIATRIC SURGERY PRE-OP APPOINTMENT
After you get to your first visit with the bariatric surgeon and get past the dreaded scale, they will continue to take your vitals, like your heart rate, blood pressure and temperature. They’ll also likely listen to your heart. Once the formalities are out of the way, be prepared to have an in-depth discussion with your doctor. He or she will probably ask you about previous weight loss attempts, your medical history, your weight loss goals, and why you want surgery.
The doctor may also ask you some uncomfortable questions about your ability to be mobile, your sleeping and eating habits, your exercise routine, and the most significant sources of stress in your life. He may ask why your previous weight loss attempts failed and how this time would be different. I know that you may want to fudge your answer slightly, but be honest. Your surgeon wants to help you and won’t judge you for your replies.
